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Understanding the LGBTQ+ Alphabet (Quick Guide)
Appendix M Language evolves. When in doubt, ask people what words they use for themselves and follow their lead. LGBTQIA+An umbrella for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, Asexual/Aromantic—the “+” includes many others on the spectrum. Sex Assigned at Birth (SAAB)The label (female/male/intersex) noted on a birth record based on observed anatomy. It’s not the… →
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Ten Tips for Youth Leaders & Preachers
Appendix I Teach covenant trajectory instead of line-drawing: aim bodies and choices toward public, durable, mutual commitment. Replace shame with formation: preach a sex-positive, consent-centered ethic (covenant, honesty, non-exploitation). Use the Two Fruit Tests: evaluate teaching by its outcomes in real lives, not applause. Name LGBTQ+ people as subjects of grace, not objects of debate;… →
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Ten Tips for Parents (of LGBTQ+ Teens & Young Adults)
Appendix H Swap purity policing for wisdom language: talk about honesty, consent, safety, and good fruit—not line-drawing. Teach consent clearly: enthusiastic, informed, reversible, specific—and model how to stop at any point. Name the covenant trajectory: help them imagine relationships that move toward public, durable commitment, not endless ambiguity. De-shame the conversation: curiosity ≠ rebellion. Keep… →
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Resources for Young People
Appendix F • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or text 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org (24/7, free, confidential). • The Trevor Project (LGBTQ youth) — 24/7 phone 1‑866‑488‑7386; chat/text via their website. • Trans Lifeline — Peer‑run support line: U.S. 877‑565‑8860; Canada 877‑330‑6366. • National Domestic Violence Hotline — 800‑799‑SAFE (7233); thehotline.org for… →
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Books to Read
Appendix C Core Affirming Works 1) Matthew Vines, God and the Gay Christian — A clear, accessible biblical case for affirming same‑sex marriage, focused on careful exegesis and conservative evangelical audiences. 2) Justin Lee, Torn — Memoir + practical bridge‑building from a devout evangelical who discovers he is gay; a great “starter” book for families… →
