• Becoming Church for Tyler

    Yesterday I posted about my friend Tyler. You can read about him here. I know a lot of serious Jesus followers who authentically want to create a place within the church for a person like Tyler and for LGBT folks more generally. (I also know a lot…

  • An Open Letter to those who Don’t Hate Me

    Dear Brothers & Sisters in Christ, I want to make sure you know that the people I addressed in yesterday’s open letter (here) are really a minority. Most of you have been very gracious and compassionate with me. And I hear some things through the …

  • No Church for Tyler

    Over the past few weeks I have had a chance to hang out with Tyler (not his real name). Tyler is a 20-something, gay, and has quite a life story. He is sharp, compassionate and an all around good guy. We were hanging out the other day and he notic…

  • An Open Letter to those who Hate Me & Hate this Blog

    Dear Brothers & Sisters in Christ, I have heard through the grapevine that there are still some out there who continue to harbor pretty strong hatred towards me and also hate this blog. I can only guess at what the issues are, because no one has s…

  • The Manhattan Declaration

    I don’t usually post three times in a day (sorry) but felt that The Manhattan Declaration is worth commenting on. Here is a summary of the document: Christians, when they have lived up to the highest ideals of their faith, have defended the weak a…

  • What I’m Reading These Days

    I tend to have a “book pile” of multiple books that I am reading at any given time. Currently, here is what is in that pile: “The Meaning of Sex” by Dennis Hollinger (GCTS President) “The Blue Parakeet” by Scot McKnight (re-reading) “A Short Intro…

  • Axioms

    One of the most influential books I have read in a long time is Bill Hybels’ Axiom: Powerful Leadership Proverbs. The idea of the book is that often we can capture fundamental truths in some simple axioms or statements. Hybels also suggests that w…

  • I’m Tired

    I woke this morning at 5:45 AM. But that is not why I am tired. Today is a rare day for me… we just wrapped up a class at school and and the new one doesn’t start until Monday, so I have no class today. I also am not scheduled to work today. So …

  • Read this Book!

    If you care at all about the gay community and even more about gay people having an authentic and life-changing encounter with Jesus, you have got to read Andrew Marin’s Love Is An Orientation: Elevating the Conversation With the Gay Community. Wh…

  • The Power of a Clarifying Question

    I have written before on a different blog about the POWER OF A CLARIFYING QUESTION. The idea is this: sometimes we can find a question that so zeros in on something that the question itself helps you clarify something — a decision, situation, str…