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  • 6 Decisions, Conclusions

    May 28, 2011

    I have been blogging about six key decisions I made in the weeks after things blew up in my life and at the church. These six decisions were critical to me being able to make it through everything. Those decisions allowed me to make other importan… →

  • 6 Decisions, #6: Keep my Eyes on Jesus as I Limp Through the Race

    May 27, 2011

    The single most important decision I made every day during this time was to Keep my Eyes on Jesus as I limped through the race. Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the… →

  • 6 Decisions, #5: Move Forward with Integrity — Because Integrity Always Wins

    May 26, 2011

    “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.” — Proverbs 10:9 ESV”Having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame.” -… →

  • 6 Decisions, #4: Take Full Responsibility — No If’s, And’s or But’s

    May 24, 2011

    Ongoing reflections as I look back over the past two years and specifically six key decisions I made in the first three months after my life blew up… today, decision #4: Take Full Responsibility — No If’s, And’s or But’s. (You can read the seri… →

  • Is the End Near? Should We Care? What Difference Does It Make?

    May 21, 2011

    I have to confess that I am a bit more than surprised how much attention is being paid — both by the media and just regular folks — to the “rapture on May 21, 2011” prediction. I don’t actually know anyone who thinks the rapture will happen tomo… →

  • 6 Decisions, #3: Embrace 100% Transparency

    May 20, 2011

    The third key decision I made that helped save my world was to embrace 100% transparency in my life. (Read about Decision #1 here, Decision #2 here, Overview here.) As i worked with my mentor team, one of the things that became clear is that a maj… →

  • 6 Decisions, #2: Find Mentors & Listen to Them

    May 19, 2011

    Yesterday I posted about the first major decision I made in the aftermath of what happened two years ago. You can read about it here. (and here). Today, I want to talk about the second key decision: finding mentors and listening to them. In the im… →

  • 6 Decisions, #1: Prioritize & Seek Community

    May 18, 2011

    The first key world-saving decision I made in the midst of my own personal world exploding was to PRIORITIZE & SEEK COMMUNITY. This was not easy. I had been someone who for over ten years had a very tight-knit and strong faith community. Even more… →

  • 6 Decisions that Helped Save My World

    May 17, 2011

    We are at the two year anniversary of when my world shattered. I have written extensively about all of this on the blog, but to summarize… If you had asked me in April 2009 about my life I would have told you that I had never been happier, more … →

  • Stop Dreaming

    May 17, 2011

    A few days ago I wrote a guest blog for The Next Leadership Association on leadership. Here is a bit of it: Seeing visions become realities is one of the most exciting feelings in the world ? especially if you are a leader. But watching dreams and… →

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FAITH AUTOPSY is a blog I started in 2010. It was part of my personal journey to learn to love God and like myself at the same time – by studying what the Bible really says (and does not say) about (and to) LGBTQ+ people like me.

In 2025, I wrote a book using the same name and revisiting many of these topics as well as my lived experience and the experiences of my friends and neighbors.

I have left all the original posts “as is” — a snapshot of my thoughts and feelings from an incredibly challenging time. I now pick up this project, creating updated and new snapshots. Life is a journey and we keep growing.

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